There are certain growing dynamics that can occur only within the dynamics of commitment. Without commitment you cannot learn to care for another person more than yourself. You cannot learn to value the growth of strength and clarity in another soul, even if that threatens the wants of your personality. When you release the wants of your personality in order to accommodate and encourage another's growth, you attune yourself to that particular person. Without commitment, you cannot learn to see others as your Self sees them ~ as beautiful and powerful spirits of Light.
Our entire world is built upon energy of the personality that has chosen to learn through fear and doubt. Nations fear nations, races fear races, and the sexes fear each other. We are then no longer humble. Having no reverence. It is arrogant and filled with its own technology. Seducing itself constantly in terms of illusions that it is in control, and so it creates chaos and still it refuses to see that it is impossible for it to control.
We take from the Earth and from each other. We destroy forests and oceans and atmosphere. We enslave each other, and torture and beat and humiliate and murder each other. For because of that, we no longer are humble. It has no reverence. Then furthermore we become to feel outside of our hearts again., When we should stay close. It creates values and perceptions at levels that reflect those as individuals that bond in partnership and choose to express their bond through their creation with and amongst themselves.
The evolving process that occurs at a level of an individual is the same at each level of interaction between individuals. When an individual invokes the energy of a particular partnership, not only the partnership that it forms with another individual is affected, but also its community, nation and at a global environment. Your decision to evolve consciously through responsible choice contributes not only to your own evolution, but also to the evolution of all of those aspects of humanity in which you participate. It is not just you that is evolving through your decisions, but the entirety of humanity.
If you wish the world to become loving and compassionate, become loving and compassionate yourself. These are the gifts you can give. The perception that separates nations is the same that exists between individuals., and the love, clarity, and compassion that emerge within the individual that chooses to align itself with, is the same that will bring sexes, races, nations, and neighbors into harmony with each other. There is no other way. Though each human being is responsible for the quality of their life that he or she personally experiences, simultaneously that extends into life Itself. So long as those who strive to establish harmony to and for nations have within themselves what they seek to heal between nations, the harmony that they seek to create at such a high level. What is in one is in the whole, and therefore, ultimately, each one is responsible for the whole world. We take Care of ourselves, our others. Hence, ~ We are All One.
When you commit to another, you begin to form and to live by values, perceptions, and actions that reflect equality and a commitment from them to you. You begin to see what is necessary is identical with what is necessary to your own growth., that each of you holds the piece that the other is missing.
You learn the roles of love and commitment and trust in making your relationship work. You learn that love alone is not enough, that without trust, you are not able to give and to receive the love that both of you have for each other. You learn that your commitment must be translated into a form that satisfies the needs of both of you. You learn to value the needs of your loved one as much as you value your own, because the relationship that you both want requires two healthy and inwardly secure individuals. You learn to trust not just to each other, but also your ability to grow together. These are the emotions that empower words that can do either damage or can do so much healing. You learn that sharing your concerns with considerations and the intentions to heal and trust in the process is the only appropriate avenue.
As you approach your needs with courage instead of fear, you ignite a sense of trust.
The true human condition in its most perfect form has no secrets. It does not hide, but exists only in clear Love.
As your temptations become greater, so does your ability to make responsible choices.
As you shine brighter, as your Light increase with each responsible choice, so too does your world.
Blessings to you All ~ RobinAnn